... a Warning

I can't help but blog about this ..

An excerpt from my daily conversations with marge:

me:  oiieee...
in fairness marge ha..
he remembers you..
 Sent at 1:59 AM on Friday
 bcn.mcuer:  hahaha
bitaw bitaw
ingon sa ihatequotes na giretweet nya:
You should be lucky if you know someone loves you. Because some people don't even know someone had crush on them.
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I soo agree to this!!
This is one of those things that I strongly agree on... so strong that I find a need to explain why..

Why?

Because feelings should be shared.. It should be let out.. Good and bad feelings..
So so much more good feelings..

I think it's in  every couple's "guide-list-to-a-perfect-relationship"  to always talk about feelings.
Even the talk about the bad feelings / arguments to fix the issues.

Now, this shouldn't  exempt those who are single (ehem.. to which me and marge belong!) Feelings shouldn't be kept too long inside.. Especially when  it's good to share.

Feeling/s is/are not some sort of "points" on a credit card or any other swipe card wherein the more you keep it, the more points you earn.!

No.

Real feelings are not like that.. It should be shared .. To whom it may concern.
I mean take this scenario:
This  one guy inside the room who feels so bad about himself..so many bad things are happening all at the same time in his life and he is feeling very alone..sad and to the point of depression.

On the other side of the room is this girl..who secretly likes this sad guy.But because of so many reasons (one of which is the dictate of social norms and mores) she can't bring herself  to ask the guy how he is and even more to say that she likes him.

Both of them know each other.


WHAT IF:

She talks to the guy.. and out of somewhere in the conversation the girl will mention that she likes him.
I bet my whole salary that no matter how sad or cynic or whatever the guy is, it will ignite a positive feeling about himself.
Wow.. I never knew that.. Somebody likes me..

I LIKE YOU..

is not the same as "I LOVE YOU".. (LOLS!! )

Oh come on! hahahahahhahahahaha.. That is where it gets WRONG..

My 2-simple steps  on this: ( This doesn't require any BS to understand. ( I'm talking about Bachelor's Degree))

1. When you tell someone "I like you. " Don't expect an " I like you too" answer. It's not a question darling. It's a statement and it does not require any answer.

2. When someone tells you " I like you. " Don't expand your head. YOu are not required to say " I like you too", just for the sake of giving an answer. A simple " Thank you" is enough.

There you go.! Those are the 2  things that my simple mind can understand..

an excerpt (again! ) from the conversation:

me:  o see!!! hahahhaa
i super like  that!!
so true!! dapat u tell people u like them ..not keep it.. they can use it! hahaha
 bcn.mcuer:  hahaha
use it as what?
that's dangerous
hahaha

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I agree with marge on the "dangerous" part. It becomes that when the 2 sides don't know how to give it and take it.
Well.. if you tell someone that you like him/her and he/she starts acting all god..then you'd know then that he has that attitude and its a sign that you are heading at the wrong direction.. switch gears.. fast!

If you can't say that line to someone without expecting an " i like you too" answer..Well, the danger sign is pasted on your face... that's the fastest ride to heartbreak hotel..


hahahahahahahahahahaha!! oh well..! that's just me and my strong need to explain my side on this.
hey! i'm not promoting infidelity.. flirtatiousity (whatever you call it) or telling you to be a player, playing hearts..
all i'm saying is one needs to know ..EVERYONE needs to have that good feeling of knowing that someone loves/likes/cares for him/her.

I am a witness to that.. I like a lot of people a lot of times.. I'd like to let them know that I like them.
But I'm not a player.. nor do i have a relationship . I'm single and happy and I don't have issues saying that.
And by far, I've had good experiences with those people who I told that I like them.

Well.. just a thought.. maybe  this line should have a WARNING tag  attached to it.


                           I LIKE YOU

           WARNING:
                   This line is dangerous if given with expectations or if taken in with thoughts of grandeur.
                   If symptoms persist consult your psychologist..